Resilience

Prologue Before I begin, it’s worth clarifying the timeline. This story was written recently, but it describes something that happened more than a decade ago. I didn’t write it at the time. I carried it with me instead. Not because it was dramatic, or unresolved, or unfinished - but because it quietly shaped how I understand leadership, trust, and professional boundaries in this game. It became one of those experiences that doesn’t announce its importance right away, but slow

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